Mastering the Inner Game Report: Do You Have Drivers License for Your Brain?
You need a license to drive a car, and you need to know how to operate a computer. Â But do you really need to know how to operate your brain? Â You wouldn’t think so, but if you’re a student of how to get whatever you want out of life, you can’t afford to be walking around without knowing how your brain works.
During the month of April, I’m participating in John Assaraf’s “Mastering the Inner Game” webinar series where I’m learning to operate my brain so that I can operate a successful business. Â I’m hoping that my journey inspires you to register for the program for yourself and see what happens when you learn how you brain works and how you can use your mind to catapult your business to the next level.
John Assaraf’s Passion
Of course the material is exciting. Â But it’s John Assaraf’s passion and engaging spirit that will get you into action. Â After all, he doesn’t have to do this. Â He’s got enough money and a large enough business NOT to have to get on a webinar at 5pm Pacific time to share his experiences with the rest of us.
And he does. Â What surprised me most was his drive for having us “get it.” Â His passion comes from re-framing his vision for OneCoach. Â I can’t recall it specifically, but it has to do with helping 1 million small business owners like us reach achieve the vision we have for our companies. Â Don’t think that he’s naive about this. Â If his program helps me to add a zero to my bottom line, I will have more time and resources to become a client and an active member of his community. Â My reaching this goal will help MY clients do more business with me. Â It’s not naive, it’s true marketing at its best.
Some Tid Bits From the Session
When I tell you that there is a ton of content and more access to videos and podcasts and worksheets and support tools — I am NOT kidding. Â Absolutely everything you need is available for you to really drive your brain and achieve the goals you’ve set for yourself.
At first I was afraid that the orientation session would be nothing more than an overview of what we would cover. Â It was so much more than that.
Here is a summary of my experience. Â If you’ve already been through a OneCoach program, I’d appreciate your leaving your comments, insights and experiences in the comments below.
The Handouts: Â As a part of the program, we receive a PDF handout where we can take notes during the sessions. Â I’m a professional trainer and I can tell you that the handouts are top notch. Â They incorporate enough of the notes, so that you’re not taking notes the whole time AND they have blank spaces where you can fill in. Â They use all the tools of learning that will make you successful if you use them.
Defining Success For Yourself: Â The next step was to define success for myself. Â This is where I could really see that I generally knew what I wanted, but I could also see that I wasn’t as clear as I needed to be. Â First I wrote things down like To me, success means: Joy, freedom, inspiration. Â Then I got to thinking that was too broad (you think?) Â So I started narrowing down to “Having the freedom for a balanced life” — still too broad. Â ”Waking up joyful and excited” Â good, but too broad. Â ”At least $100,000 cash on hand at any time.” Â Much better. Â And finally building a $5 million business in then next 3 years.” Â That’s on the right track. Â But still I feel something is missing.
I already know that for any of this to work, I have to see it, smell it and taste it. Â Currently it feels like I’m looking through a forest and can sort of see it. Â Or maybe looking through a film or frosted window. Â I can smell it – but it’s at a distance.
Then they ask what success “feels” like. Â Again, I stumble through the exercise: “exciting, energizing, balanced”
What is Success for YOU?
Well, I can certainly see that I can’t drive my brain to success if I don’t know what success is. Â After all, I’m pretty happy right now. Â Love my life as it is. Â And I can see that this can be a powerful deterrent to a brain that is committed to keeping me safe. Â But “safe” and “success” are not the same.
I’ll be working on clearly defining what success looks like and feels like for me. Â What about you? Â What does success look like and feel like for YOU?
If you’re already clear – then how did you get to that moment of clarity?
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This is my personal seduction affirmation list. It’s mostly to help me be successful with women but also has a lot to do with having self-esteem, confidence and a healthy psychological state of being. Feel free to use it and share it with others. It took me a long time to build this list and I have found it extremely helpful. Using these affirmations has forever changed my life and I’m sure it will change yours too!
Everything in your life has to do with your psychological state of being. You are your thoughts and your thoughts are you. Change your mind and you change the world. Your external reality is nothing more than a reflection of your internal reality. Do not look out there, look within. Work on your inner self and inner world first then everything else will change for the better.
Perception is Reality. How you perceive the exterior world determines what your experience of it will be. These affirmations may seem outrageous because they are. Embrace them absolutely and completely, trust me on this one! The human mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and imagined. Being “delusional” is how you get good at life.
Beliefs of Naturals – My Reality
Read 3 times before bed and in the morning(do it for a for month) Record in the second person. Play recording on a loop continuously at a low volume(whisper). Play recording during the day and at night while sleeping.
1. Being with me is the best possible choice for any woman.
2. Women love men and especially love me.
3. I love life!
4. I am God. I am Perfect. This is my universe!
5. I am fearless, courageous and bold!!!
6. I read incredibly fast!
7. Women love sex and want sex from me.
8. My intelligence, creativity and potential is infinite!
9. I am exceptionally social and outgoing.
10. I am completely focused, organised and use my time with the utmost efficiency.
11. Women are nurtures and pleaser’s who want to nurture and please me.
12. I am an infinitely self-assured, confident, sexual and dominant male.
13. Everyday in every way I am better and better!!!
14. I have complete control over my life, mind and psychological state of being.
15. I am the greatest genius this world has ever seen.
16. I heal instantly!
17. I am successful, confident and achieve my goals. I exude infinite sex, power, confidence, happiness and self-love all the time.
18. I can be, do and have anything I want to in this world, my possibilities are endless!!!
19. I love myself! I am complete, fulfilled and completely happy!!!
20. I am growing more beautiful and luminous day by day.
21. Everybody loves me and all women want me! I make friends easily.
23. I access all the knowledge in the universe.
25. I am completely irresistible to women!
26. Regardless of how she is reacting to me she is getting aroused.
27. I see the underlying truth in all things.
28. I am an adventurer! I travel the world!
29. Regardless of how she is reacting to me I am the prize she is trying to win over!
30. I am a multi-millionaire and master seducer!
31. I love what I do and am richly rewarded, creatively and financially.
32. I have a perfect photographic memory! I recall everything easily.
33. Since she wants to have sex with me, the power is in my court to decide whether she lives up to my standards and expectations. I get to decide if we have sex.
34. I create my own reality!
35. Today I love my body fully, deeply and joyfully.
37. Today I open my mind to the endless opportunities surrounding me.
38. Prosperity surrounds me, prosperity fills me, prosperity flows to me and through me.
39. I have sex with super hot, confident, loving, caring and intelligent women with genius IQ’s all the time!
40. I think positively every day, all the time.
41. I attract amazing people.
43. My body is now trained to burn fat and build muscle day by day.
44. I have a six pack of abdominal muscles.
46. I am filled with the light of love, peace, happiness, power, success and joy every day, all the time.
47. I am aggressive, direct and powerful with the women I desire. I radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.
48. My mind is focused on what I desire and I go for it congruently and powerfully.
49. I take immediate advantage of my opportunities with women. I swiftly establish incredible rapport, gather the information I need, then close with aggression, power and finesse.
50. I radiate a natural, easy self-acceptance that women find irresistibly attractive.
51. I am mastering the responses, attitudes, behaviours, insights and timing that bring me irresistible power with the women I desire.
52. I am now approaching women that I am attracted to.
53. I am able to pick up and attract any women I desire.
54. I am a strong, powerful, aggressive, dominant, alpha male, leader and conqueror!!!
55. I am smooth, charming, interesting and fascinating!!!
56. I have a perfectly sculptured muscle ripped body.
57. I am super hot and sexy, all women want me!
58. Abundance is my natural state of being!
59. Money comes to me easily and continuously from multiple sources!
61. My IQ and intelligence increases daily rapidly!!!
62. I have clear beautiful skin!
63. I have lucid dreams and recall all my dreams with complete clarity!
65. All things are now working together for good in my life.
67. I rule the world! I am brilliant and perfect in every possible way!
68. I succeed in everything I do!
69. I have sex with one thousand super hot women!
70. I am now enjoying everything I do and feel happy just being alive.
71. Sex with super hot women comes to me easily and effortlessly.
72. All things are now working together for good in my life.
73. I have the infinite creative power of God within me.
74. I am a Bad Boy, Player, Natural and Ladies Man!
75. I am a Sexy Beast! Everywhere I go women want to fuck me!
76. I have sex with supermodels daily.
77. Supermodels have an incredible desire to fuck me wherever I go!
78. I attract whatever I desire.
79. I am the most desirable man in the world. I am God’s gift to women.
80. Supermodels and incredibly hot women proactively, persistently and aggressively seek me out to fuck me.
81. Beautiful women are extremely persistent with me for sex.
82. What I believe is reality. Women experience me as extremely intoxicating, exciting and addictive.
83. I am a catch and out of her league, any woman that’s with me is very fortunate to have my attention.
84. Beautiful women are extremely attracted to me on a deeply subconscious level.
85. Women are perverted creatures who are always trying to fuck me.
86. Every morning I wake up in bed with twenty supermodels.
Attitude of the The Prize
You got to be a bit self-centered, a jerk and an asshole. The difference between nice guys and Alpha males: Nice guys place a woman on a pedestal, Alpha males place themselves on a pedestal. Just be Alpha and dominant. Chicks dig 50 Cent not Steve Urkel. Alpha males love themselves more than they ever could any woman on this planet. Always remember that you are more important than any woman on this planet regardless of how physically attractive she may be. You have high value and she has very low value. You are the Prize she is trying to win over. Perceive the world the same way Brad Pitt does, every high valued quality woman wants you but they’re just not good enough. Every woman on the planet wants you so why settle for the first thing that comes along? Your attitude should be:
“I am a catch.”
“I am out of your league.”
When I became self-centered, that’s how I got good with women. Always talk down to hot women!
Behave around hot women and talk to them as though they have very low value. Perceive her as a fat ugly chick. Talk to her and carry yourself around her the same way you would to a fat ugly chick. You are a catch, she should be trying to win over your approval!
Know that there are only ever two steps to follow to figure out anything in life.
1. Ask yourself “What works?”
2. Become that!